Beyond the Binary – Building Beloved Community Resources

 

Why the Binary Hurts Everyone: Resources and further researching, reading, and watching

General ~ why this matters:

– Interview/conversation with Alok Vaid-Menon on the Man Enough Podcast, explains why this all matters: 

https://youtu.be/Tq3C9R8HNUQ

– MTV Docs: Transformation – a beautiful film, trans people getting makeovers, really insightful people:

https://www.youtube.com/live/qA5fNBQNVyE

– A beautiful comic about trans people by Clover Ajamie on tumblr: 

https://rajamie.tumblr.com/post/706969649117626368

Intro / 101 level short resources:

– Nonbinary: A gender fluid generation speaks out: 

https://youtu.be/RYq59OrrW1kk

– Gender: The Space Between: 

https://youtu.be/ZFWrzw9szt8

– Zine: How to Support Your Nonbinary Family Member:

https://www.etsy.com/listing/947770823/digital-how-to-support-your-non-binary

– How to Support Your Transgender or Gender Diverse Child:

https://youtu.be/qe_n5UgJod4

– Continuing Education training on marginalized genders and sexualities: 

https://thesafezoneproject.com/curriculum/

– Pronouns – what they mean, why they matter, how to approach:

https://pronouns.org/

– The Trans Language Primer: an extensive collection of definitions useful for reference rather than a Google Search which may lead to transphobic or AI generated inaccurate definitions. Includes an extensive term index, acronym index, flag index, and guided tours of the primer by topic:

https://translanguageprimer.com

Support Groups

– Zoom support group for Parents of Trans people: 

– Let’s Stay Together – Online Support Group for Significant Others – First Tuesdays 6:30-8:30pm Mountain Time: 

https://lgbtqcolorado.org/event/online-significant-others-support/2024-12-03/

JIwancio@lgbtqcolorado.org

– Virtual Parents Group organized by Gender Equality New York

– Parents of Trans, Non-binary & Gender Non-Conforming kids of all ages

– Second and Fourth Tuesday of each month at 7pm Eastern Time via Zoom

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89053708810 

Important insight for people who want to be, or think of themselves as, allies of transgender people:

– Short Article : Trans Allies, Here’s What You Can Do – published Feb 1, 2025:

https://substack.com/inbox/post/156248499

– Article by S. Bear Bergman: What you can do, right now, for your trans and nonbinary friends, family, students and colleagues – published Feb. 2, 2025:

https://medium.com/@sbearbergman/what-you-can-do-right-now-for-your-trans-and-nonbinary-friends-family-students-and-colleagues-d56b9672e4d6

– Actions Allies Can Take Right Now by TransAffirming.co: 

https://www.canva.com/design/DAGd_eWNG3g/dZH5-bUEuM8QkfsVIb0eGQ/view

– Learn how to testify in support of trans rights: https://action.transequality.org/a/how-testify-trans-rights

– Short Video By Elle Deran: 3 common mistakes cisgender allies of transgender people make:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5wahDyychU/

– Book: The Heart of Allyship also by Elle Deran: 

https://ellederan.com/merch/p/the-heart-of-allyship-e-booklet

– Chart By Sam Dylan Finch: 10 things you’re actually “saying” when you ignore someone’s pronouns:

https://www.instagram.com/p/C5_bdZqRZkt/

– Longer Video By Jessican Kellgren-Fozard on how to actually be an ally:

https://youtu.be/Qz_vigbSfNg

– Trans Etiquette Training: video course you can do on your own:

https://www.uua.org/leaderlab/trans-etiquette

– Transgender Inclusion in Congregations – A 6-session online course:

https://transforming-hearts-collective.teachable.com/

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