Beyond the Binary – Building Beloved Community

Resources from OUTRIGHT VT

Resilience In LGBTQ+ Youth

Critical Stats: Vermont’s LGBTQ+ Youth

Youth Priorities: Protect Our Rights in VT Schools & Communities

 

Why Binary hurts everyone—resources for further researching, reading, and watching

General ~ why this matters

Alok: The Urgent Need for Compassion | The Man Enough Podcast, interview and conversation with Alok Vaid-Menon explaining why this all matters

MTV Docs: Transformation, a beautiful film, trans people getting makeovers, really insightful people:

A beautiful comic about trans people by Clover Ajamie on tumblr

 

Intro / 101 level short resources

Nonbinary: A gender fluid generation speaks out

Gender: The Space Between

How to Support Your Non-Binary Family Member zine (digital, Etsy)

How to Support Your Transgender or Gender Diverse Child

Safe Zone Project, curriculum recommended for all groups to introduce core concepts of marginalized genders and sexualities

Pronouns Matter – what they mean, why they matter, how to use them

The Trans Language Primer, guide to the language of gender, attraction, and acceptance; extensive definitions useful for reference rather than a Google search that  may lead to transphobic or AI-generated inaccurate definitions. Includes a term index, acronym index, flag index, and guided tours of the primer by topic

 

Support Groups

Zoom support group for Parents of Trans people: Family Peer Advocacy, email Family Peer Advocate@ACRHealth.org, 315.475.2430, upstate New York.

Let’s Stay Together – Online Support Group for Significant Others, offered by The Center on Colfax, a safe and welcoming place for Colorado’s LGBTQ community, first Tuesdays 6:30-8:30pm Mountain Time. JIwancio@lgbtqcolorado.org

Virtual Parents Group organized by Gender Equality New York. View Virtual Parents Group Flyer. Second & Fourth Tuesday each month at 7 pm, Zoom link here.

 

Important insights for people who want to be, or think of themselves as, allies of transgender people

Trans Allies, Here’s What You Can Do – published Feb 1, 2025

What you can do, right now, for your trans and nonbinary friends, family, students and colleagues article by S. Bear Bergman, February 2, 2025

Actions for Trans Allies, article by Trans Affirming Training & Consulting, last updated April, 2025

Take Action, Advocates for Trans Equality, current national and state-based actions

3 common mistakes cisgender allies of transgender people make, short Video by Elle Deran

The Heart of Allyship, book also by Elle Deran

10 things you’re actually “saying” when you ignore someone’s pronouns, chart by Sam Dylan Finch

Are you ACTUALLY a good ally?, longer video by Jessican Kellgren-Fozard

Trans Etiquette Training, UUA Leader Lab, a video course you can do on your own

Transgender Inclusion in Congregations: A 6-session online course, Transforming Hearts Collective

Building Inclusive Queer Spaces: A Community Tool Kit